Kinder than Necessary

Kinder than is necessary-it’s just another way of describing grace.  It’s a phrase that has been running through my head more often than not, lately.  Maybe it’s because I’ve been on the receiving end.  Receiving grace makes me want to give it- not as a payback, but as an act of gratitude.  Those little kindnesses from other people, unexpected, no strings attached, just because…they humble me.  They remind me of a bigger picture of grace, as displayed in the gospel.

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10 Ways to Encourage Your Spouse

I love being able to bring a smile to my husband’s face, encouraging him when he most needs it.  You probably feel the same way about your spouse, right?  I know I certainly enjoy receiving encouragement, most of all, from my spouse- so I try to be intentional in how I encourage him.  I won’t pretend that I’m always on top of it- but I try. 

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9 traits of a life giving marriage- book review

I recently had the opportunity to review a book, called 9 Traits of a Life Giving Marriage, by Sue Detweiler.  I thought the title was perfect- as the book really did deliver on its' promise. 9 Traits of a Life Giving Marriage was a straightforward and honest look at what it takes for a Christian marriage to thrive.  I appreciated the vulnerability shown throughout the pages, along with Sue's willingness to share personal stories from her own marriage- the good and the bad.  We can learn from each other, and this book had the tone of a wise, older sister, sharing her wisdom out of love, with a desire to see marriages succeed.  

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